Your child is grown. Now what?
You’re not just adjusting to distance — you’re navigating a complete life shift.
This is a new chapter, and you don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
Does any of this sound familiar?
Your college student isn’t responding to your texts OR your high school student is creating uncomfortable distance.
Your marriage feels stale and distant.
You suddenly have time… and no idea how to fill it.
You’ve tried:
Joining Facebook groups for college moms
Making small talk with a husband who feels like a roommate
Giving your child “space” even when it feels like abandonment
Keeping yourself busy so you don’t have to think about it
But nothing’s changing. The anxiety remains. The distance grows.
And underneath it all, you’re wondering:
“Did I just spend 18 years building a life that doesn’t need me anymore?”
I see you…
I see the mom who’s up at 2am scrolling Facebook, hoping for a glimpse into her college student’s life.
I see the mom who wishes her grown teen would talk to her like they did 5 years ago instead of shutting her out.
I see the woman who sits across from her spouse at dinner with nothing to say.
I see the woman staring in the mirror wondering, “Who am I now?”
Whether your oldest, youngest, or only child is making this transition, everything in your family is shifting — and so are you.
I’m Kiersten Lortz!
I am an ICF-certified coach, published author of Possibilities, and founder of the Possibilities Conference.
I’ve felt that distance from a grown child and how it impacts a marriage. Through neuroscience-based tools and DBT skills, I RECLAIMED these relationships and learned how to confidently RECONNECT with the people who matter most to me.
I specialize in helping mothers navigate the three relationships that shift as your child prepares for and makes the transition to college and adulthood:
Your relationship with your child
Your relationship with your spouse
Your relationship with yourself
You’re not broken. You’re just in a moment of transition.
And this next chapter? It can be your most powerful one yet.
Here’s How I Can Help:
Step 1: ClarityWe start with an honest, judgment-free conversation.
Where are you stuck — with your student, your spouse, and yourself?
You talk. I listen. Together, we uncover what’s really going on beneath the surface.
Step 2: StrategyOnce you’ve laid it all out, I help you spot the patterns keeping you disconnected. You’ll learn:
Where to step in — and where to step back
What your student really needs from you now
Determining next steps in your marriage
The subtle dynamics that create distance — and how to shift them
You’ll walk away with:
✔ Real scripts for hard conversations
✔ Boundaries that feel loving, not controlling
✔ A vision for who you're becoming (not just who you've been)
Step 3: SupportYou don’t have to figure this out alone.
With a mix of group coaching, 1:1 strategy sessions, and SOS calls for the tough days, you'll have the tools and support to stay grounded — even when things feel hard.
Book Your Free 30-Minute Inquiry Call
It’s time to partner with a wife and mother who’s been there and
has the tools and strategy to support you through it.
Six Months from Now…
If you say yes to this support:
Your college student calls just to talk — not just when they need something. Conversations are easy. The anxiety is gone.
You’re at peace with your high schooler’s need for space and show up in a way that brings them closer, not pushes them away.
You and your spouse laugh again. You feel like partners, not just co-parents. Intimacy is rebuilding. So is trust.
You wake up excited for your day. You’re pursuing passions, setting goals, and reconnecting with the woman you were before motherhood — and the one you’re becoming now.
You’re not just surviving this transition—you’re thriving in it.
But if nothing changes:
Your student pulls further away, sensing your anxiety and creating more distance.
Your marriage continues its slow fade into parallel lives.
You watch others embrace their second chapter while you stay stuck in the end of your first.
The relationships that matter most begin to wither. Not from one big moment — but from a thousand small moments of disconnection you didn’t know how to repair.
Here’s what other women are saying:
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“I felt on top of the world after my session with Kiersten! I felt empowered because the thoughts and the goals I set for myself all came from me. She just helped open my eyes to different possibilities. I am so grateful that I did that session with her!”
Jessica B. from West Virginia
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"Kiersten's substantial value showcases itself in the form of enthusiastic loyalty. Once she takes on a client, she never gives up on them. I see her forging friendships and bonds with everyone she works with—and that will last far beyond any business venture.”
Dawn T. from Maryland
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“Kiersten helps me stay on task and get things done—and not in her time frame, but mine. She’s patient with me and encouraging."
Cheri P. from Maryland
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“Kiersten helped me see that my biggest problem wasn’t my motivation, it was that I wasn’t keeping commitments to myself. You always hear that you need to, "take care of yourself first," but I thought it wasn’t possible. I’ve learned now that even the small things make a huge difference. My life is completely changed from working with Kiersten.”
Sarah Beth Y. from Pennsylvania
Introducing:
The Reclaim and Reconnect Program
A 12-month journey to rebuild the relationships that matter most and rediscover the woman behind the roles.
Inside the program:
→ Semi-monthly 1:1 strategy sessions
→ 4 Emergency “SOS” calls when you need immediate support
→ Access to me via the Marco Polo app
→ A ticket to Possibilities Conference
→ Private community of mothers navigating the same transitions
→ Coaching through all the transitions: Going to school, first visit home, holidays, spring break, returning home for summer
Your Investment
$550/month for 6 months
or $2,999 paid in full (save $300)
Not ready to commit to coaching but need immediate help?
Book an SOS Call.
This 60-minute session is just what you need to gain clarity, decide your next best steps, and take action with confidence.